Tuesday, November 5, 2024

Meanderings of an Itinerant Theological Student: a Reminiscence

Shortly before our college graduation, my friend Tim Hull offered me his image of my future: I am on a dirt road in some third world country, kicking a can as I walk, wrapped up in my thinking. At the time, I received this as accurate, appreciative, and affectionate. I was flattered.  I have always cherished the image. I take it to be prophetic of my life.

In sophomore year of college seminary, I received my annual "evaluation" (the judgment of our priest faculty about our progress towards the priesthood) from a marvelous Maryknoll priest, John Halbert:  "You are a nothing! What are you? A nothing! Not a leader, not an athlete, not a trouble-maker, not the popular guy, not the class clown, not the smart one! You are nothing!" He paused in silence. I let it sank in. "That is about right" I said to myself. Through high school I was the same thing: quiet, nothing exceptional, invisible. But I didn't feel bad. Strangely, I felt quietly within a peaceful self-esteem, unrelated to the social perception. I think I was flattered by the attention: he was obviously speaking so  passionately because he expected better of me. Than he asked: "What about your father? Is he a nothing like you." At that I felt a surge of joy and pride within: "No. My father is not a nothing. He is a union organizer. A leader of men." I felt such happiness and affection at the thought of my father, Ray Laracy. And I quietly thought: "I am his son. I will not be a nothing." I have always cherished this memory. Most (for example my wife and children) are horrified to hear of it. 

Upon graduating college in 1969 at the age of 22 I left the seminary. Despite a continuing attraction to the missionary priesthood, I had to overcome my pathological shyness with women and work/live as a man before I could consider returning to the seminary. On my very first date I fell madly in love. My destiny was clear: husband to Mary Lynn and hopefully father of our children.

I had zero career direction. What I had was an urgency to study/share my faith and a desire to befriend the poor. While I courted my Beloved, I pursued these two passions, in an entirely fluid, spontaneous and random manner. I took courses as an nonmatriculated student with the best professors at Union
Theological and Woodstock Jesuit Theology School; I taught theology part time at Xavier HS. and  ESL in the South Bronx. At the time, another college friend described me as an itinerant, mendicant theological student.  

You can imagine that my new wife's mother and father were not thrilled with the career-free, happy-go-lucky, live-simply attitude of their new son-in-law. And the subsequent almost 54 years of marriage have been a dance...not always serene, never boring...between a Groom who is frugal, sparse, minimalist, abstract, detached...and the Bride who is an Earth Mother: free-spirited, fiercely devout, compassionate, mega-generous, artistic, aesthetic, visual, concrete, garden-food-wine-beauty loving. Rarely is the asymmetry, along with the more dominant mutuality and complementarity, of the male/female so pronounced (and sometimes excruciating, especially for the more sensitive one of us.) 

The 18 months in Manhattan between my graduation and marriage, I realize in retrospect, nicely sum up my entire adult life: the love I share with Mary Lynn, study and sharing of our Catholic faith, and our friendship with the poor. 

Other than 25 years working as a supervisor in United Parcel Service to support our family, my adult life has been bereft of career purpose, certification, achievements, and a  professional curriculum vita. In the meritocracy I am close to a nothing. The initiation, with family and friends, of Magnificat Home, now over 15 years old, is another exception. In general, I am amateur, entirely lay and unprofessional, in all things. This in two ways.

Most importantly, I have done what I have done out of love (Latin: Amo), not out of utility or for an exterior goal like money, status, security. 

Secondly, I have done everything at a low level of quality: almost no real excellence. But I have done very many very excellent things...however poorly...and that is my salvation. Somewhere I heard: "lower your expectations, and your performance will rise." I have a low bar of expectation. So I am easily pleased...with myself and with others. "Jack of all trades; master of none."

I have taught elementary school, high school, college, CCD, confirmation, summer bible camps, charismatic prayer meetings. I am expert at none.

I have prayed in city projects, jails, hospitals, psychiatric wards...I am not a certified chaplain.

I have engaged in Cursillo, Marriage Encounter, Charismatic Renewal, Our Lady's Missionaries of the Eucharist, Neocatechumenal Way, Communion and Liberation events, Communio conferences, 12-step groups, sensitivity groups, retreats of all sorts, men's conferences and support groups. But I wander in and out of these ambiances of grace, staying with none.

Perhaps my favorite spiritual classis is The Way of the Pilgrim, the strange, mysterious story of a Russian man who loses family and property to fire and embarks as a wandering pilgrim across Russia. He moves from one holy site or monastery to another; owning nothing; seeking wisdom; encountering all kinds of events, good and bad; always praying the Jesus Prayer: "Lord Jesus Christ, only Son of the living God, have mercy on me, a sinner." I find this story exhilarating in the pilgrim's life of freedom, simplicity, purity, humility, drama, and unlimited serendipity. I want to be that pilgrim!

A similar liberty of spirit is manifest in the classic of Myles Connelly: Mr. Blue. Blue is an eccentric, urban, joyous mystic, living in NYC, friends with the poor, lavishly sharing riches with the hopeless, exploding with praise and exuberance. 

A specific highpoint in my life was  20 years ago when I did the Camino of Santiago of Compostela across northern Spain. I had been delivered by surgery of colon cancer; my children were moving through school and into adulthood; I was happily teaching high school religion. I walked, in solitude, in late summer, in marvelous weather, across the glorious, historic northern Spain. I stopped at every chapel and church to pray. I cherished my solitude. I had a long itinerary of prayers to do each day: 20 decades of the rosary, intentions, litany of Divine Mercy, prayer of the sinner, scripture reading. I had died and gone to heaven! The only time I was lonely was a dinner: inexpensive, delicious, with a cheap but decent carafe of wine. I missed my wife Mary Lynn who would have LOVED the meal and the wine and the price! Sometimes I would walk with someone and talk or eat dinner with people. But mostly I was alone and enjoying it. I never planned ahead. Even walking I only looked for the "pilgrim shells" that marked the way. About 3 or 4 times I wandered off path, but always found my way back. 

So my life, at its best,  has been like the Camino: not programmed ahead of time, spontaneous, light, free. I would like to think much of it in synch with the Holy Spirit...of joy, of mercy, of hope, of abundance. My hidden ambition has always been to emulate the Russian Pilgrim and Mr. Blue. 

From my conception I have been surrounded by love...of family, within the Church, in a prosperous USA. This intensified my temperamental tendency to introversion, solitude, happiness, reflection. Along with this: an aversion to a culture of activism, conspicuous consumerism, extroversion,  competition, status obsession and crude machismo. Perhaps that is why I am prone to reject the bourgeois.  Perhaps that is partly why I will, in about two hours, pull the lever for Trump/Vance! Still a "never-Trumper" and a "double-hater," my statement is defensive of my Catholic way of life and of the lower class against the pretentious, Catholic-despising, sexually liberated, science-adoring progressive hegemony of the professional, managerial, educated elites.

I was conceived just 78 years ago this month. I wonder: what will be my legacy? I hope I will be remembered as a pilgrim, of the Camino, like the little Russian guy; as a  happy friend of poor, like Blue; as a "man of the Church,"  a "catechist," an "echoer" who lived and listened within the womb of Mother Church; as one whose life of love, faith, and joy, shared with his wife, continues and flourishes in his family and friends.

Thursday, October 31, 2024

Catholic Champions of our Age

Today being All Saints Day, we do well to consider the heroic, wise, holy ones who have inspired, guided, instructed, protected and sanctified us over a lifetime, say the last 8 decades since WWII. I will offer 80 names on three lists: the older generation, our parents, often called The Great Generation, (born 1901-27), who lived through the Depression and WWII into the second half of the century; the Silent Generation (1928-45) who have recently passed or are now in their 90s and 100s; and the Boomers (1946-64).

This list is personal, leaning toward theologians/philosophers, saint/mystics, Americans and leaders of lay renewal movements. The criteria is six-fold:

1. Holiness of life.

2. Range and depth of influence.

3. Clarity, creativity and profundity of thought.

4. Fidelity to the Tradition of the Church.

5. That indefinable charm, charism, and splendor that delights, attracts and inspires others.

6. Intimacy with the poor and suffering.

So brilliant, influential theologians whose fidelity to Church teaching was compromised, notably in regard to contraception,  (Rahner, Lonergan, Rohr, Chardin, Metz,  Illich), do not make this list. In some cases, these men are admirable in their piety, erudition and loyalty to the Church, but their followers developed aspects of their thought in unfortunate directions. Of  course we exclude the gifted, influential "dishonorables" of The Scandal: Maciel, Vanier, McCarrick, Rupnik and others.

GREAT GENERATION

St. John Paul II  The incomparable champion of our time, our own El Cid, he embodied to a sublime degree all six values: holiness, influence, intellectual brilliance, fidelity, charism and closeness to the poor.

St. Mother Theresa of Calcutta  By virtue of her heroic service of the poor and her decades long "dark night of the soul" she stands alone in her fortitude and holiness.

St. Padre Pio  He also stands alone for his holiness and the extraordinary manifestations of the supernatural.

Pope Benedict  A true Doctor of the Faith, his teaching, which springs from the humility and holiness of his life, is incomparable in its combination of clarity, simplicity, depth, fidelity, erudition and loveliness.

Hans Urs von Balthasar and Adrienne von Speyr  The partnership of this exceptional mystic and the most creative, encyclopedic, deep Catholic thinker of our time leaves us a boundless legacy of the True, the Good and the Beautiful.

Fulton Sheen, Patrick Peyton, (the early) Thomas Merton, Sheed and Ward.  In their distinct ways, these inflamed the remarkable Catholic American Renewal of 1945-65.

Dorothy Day, Catherine de Hueck Doherty, and Madaleine Delbrell. These fierce, fearless, brilliant, holy women lived intimately with the poor, ever in deep prayer.

St. Jose Maria Escriva, Chiara Lubich, Monsignor Luigi Giussanij. Founders of Opus Dei, Focolari, and Communion and Liberation. A special note of gratitude to Monsignor Lorenzo Albacete, brilliant, eccentric, hilarious, mystical, boundless entertaining leader of CL in the USA.

Bishops and Periti of Vatican II, (especially DeLubac, Congar, Danielou, Boyer, Phillips, Murray, Ostereicher). 

Jacques Maritain, Dietrick von Hildebrand, Jaki, Gilson, Joseph Pieper, Guardini, Marcel, MacIntyre, Dulles, Dawson, Lukacs. Along with others, these retrieved St. Thomas in conversation with what is best in contemporary thought. Surely most underrated, since the Council, is Reginald Garrigou-Lagrange, who mentored John Paul, Chenu, Congar and countless others in his 50 years teaching at the Angelicum as he battled his friend Maritain and the entire Nouvelle Theologue, an amicable fight that continues today.

Caryl Houselander, Flannery O'Connor, Graham Green, Sigrid Undset, Paul Claudel, Tolkien, Bernanos, Mauriac, Walter Percy and others who inflamed the Catholic imagination.

Popes Pius XII, John XXIII, Paul VI who shepherded our Church after the war and into the 70s with striking intelligence, prudence, and piety.

Mother Angelica. This simple, humble, pious nun has had immense impact on the global Church through her miraculous EWTN.

Silent Generation

Kiko Arguello, with Carmen Hernandez, founded the NeoCatechumenal Way, a profoundly traditional yet imaginative and creative expression of our faith.

Ralph Martin and his Partners (Steve Clark, NJ's Fr. Jim Ferry) who guided the Catholic Charismatic Renewal after 1967.

Rene Girard, assisted in the USA by Gil Baile, offers an insightful, refreshing new anthropology of "mimetics" which is imitation as the core of human conduct.

Father Benedict Groeschel, founded with his partners the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal and was his own fresh, sane, loyal voice in the chaos after the Council.

Paul Vitz. Like Fr. Groeschel, an academic who blended sound psychology within a Catholic framework.

David L. Schindler. American protege of John Paul, Benedict and Balthasar; Godfather of the American Communio school and the John Paul Institute in DC; and incomparable Catholic critic of American culture.

Richard Neuhaus, Michael Novak, along with younger George Weigel, are influential Catholic Neoconservatives: defenders of Democratic Capitalism within the Catholic framework.

Father Michael Scanlon T.O.R. built Franciscan University of Steubenville into a Catholic powerhouse and contributed richly to the Catholic Charismatic Renewal. 


Boomers

Giuseppe and Claudi Gennarini who brought the Neocatechumenal Way to the USA.

Disciples of Monsignor Giassani, many of the Italian college students in the 1960s, who built his inspirational vision into Communion and Liberation.

Scott Hahn who has led, in our time, a "neo-Oxford-Movement" of influential Protestant thinkers, pastors and theologians into the Catholic Church and deeply impacted Catholic theology, especially in scripture studies.

Bishop Robert Barron. Master catechist, protege of Balthasar, most influential American bishop of our time.

Heather King. A favorite of mine: contrite, brilliant, charming, eccentric, free-spirited.

We are additionally grateful, in these dark years of Pope Francis, for those who stand clearly and courageously, with Tradition, in correction and witness, resistant to the "synodal" (???) incoherence and confusion of the papacy: hierarchs like Mueller, Chaput, Burke, Zen, and laity like Reno, Arroyo, Royal and others.

Let us also remember the anonymous, little, humble ones who have labored over the decades in the home and parish...in the prolife movement, home schooling, Latin mass community, the new Catholic colleges (Benedictine, Franciscan, Ave Maria, etc.), recent religious orders, and a rich variety of intensive renewal Catholic environments...all breathing the fire of the Holy Spirit in traditional-yet-new manners.

As we survey this marvelous range of personalities we engage the history of salvation in our time and view, not a Catholic "bubble," but a Catholic Cosmos, flawed and fallible for sure, every dynamic and eventful, radiant in the splendor of the True, the Good, the Beautiful...truly the Kingdom of Heaven here on earth. What a marvelous time to be Catholic!

I ask you, dear Reader, who have I missed? Who overrated or underrated?

Let us, in this month of the saints and the souls, give thanks for these holy, heroic souls who have enriched our Church in this, our time! You saints and angels Pray for Us!




Monday, October 21, 2024

The Masculine/Feminine Dynamic in the Renewal Movements

Every person,  community and institution, is an interplay of the masculine and the feminine. "Male and female He created them." About 20 years ago, a Felician nun graphologist studied my handwriting and found "a strong female influence." I took that as descriptive rather than evaluative, not necessarily good or bad: on the one hand we have Eve misleading Adam, the seductive femme fatale, the smothering mother with the Moma's boy; on the other hand we have Mary, our Blessed Mother. But I have always cherished the description. First of all, because I have been VERY close to VERY many VERY fine women. Secondly, because I am convinced that genuine virility at its core is reverence, tenderness, affection, delight, intimacy, receptivity, gentle strength and generosity towards the feminine.  Lastly, I share the Catholic Marian intuition of the vast superiority...spiritual, moral, emotional, social...of the feminine over the masculine. It is male inferiority that requires compensation by a degree of free, generous entrustment by the female; even as it is his evident deficiency that makes him a fitting "representative" of the Father. Peter is so defective that there is little danger of deifying him; but the feminine is in itself so radiant that it lends itself to the pantheism of "Mother Earth."

Conjugal Mysticism

I believe that the singular significant development in late 20th century Catholic theology was the conjugal mysticism of John Paul, Balthasar, Benedict, DeLubac, Speyr and others. This is a re-gestalt of Catholicism, in all essential elements, around the spousal communion of man/woman as the defining analogy of our relationship with God in Christ. In this view, the male/female communion of the male and the female, equal in dignity but distinct, in love is iconic of the inner life of the Trinity, three equal persons in perfect union yet infinitely distinct. The marital union of man/woman assumes at once equality in dignity and immense distinction. It is the highest expression of the love of the Trinity in the created realm. And so, regarding the Church, Father Von Balthasar famously contrasted the Marian (feminine) and Petrine (male, clerical) dimensions of the Church, highlighting the vast superiority, in Catholicism, of the former. 

With that in mind, let's consider the interplay of the masculine/feminine in the renewal, especially lay, movements in the Church in recent history. We'll contrast three types: strongly feminine, balanced and integrated, and predominantly masculine. Our assumption is that accepting the Marian/Petrine mystery, the ideal is a balance that distinguishes and yet values both in a way that is integral, wholesome, chaste, reverent, tender, delighted, and fruitful. If St. Peter, his office and his descendants represent the Petrine/masculine; and Mary is the perfect embodiment of the feminine; than St. John, intimate with Christ and his mother, represents Christian life at its most integral, balanced, complete.

Strongly Feminine

To the Catholic mind, creation in relation to the Creator, Israel in relation to its Lord, the Church in relation to Christ the Groom, and the personal soul in relation to God are all receptive, feminine or bridal. This is clear, if understated, in scripture: Mary as mother of Jesus and the Church, the women close to Jesus even at the foot of the cross, the apostolic primacy of Mary Magdalen after the Resurrection. To the Catholic imagination, male and female are equal in ontological dignity, but distinct: the masculine is representative in its final form as paternity of God; but the feminine in itself is superior morally, spiritually, emotionally.  One of the startlingly novel expressions of the Gospel was the powerful, anti-cultural, extra-patriarchal draw of women to the virginal life. Catholicism, especially in the cult of Mary, is the most "feminine" of all branches of Christianity and probably of all world religions. Protestantism and Islam are especially clear in their spiritual diminishment of femininity. Through most of our Catholic history, the religious feminine has found expression in women's religious orders. The good thing: women found here a realm free of male dominance in which they exercised freedom and agency,  intimate with their spiritual spouse, our Lord Jesus. The bad thing: there was a distance between the feminine and masculine which impoverished both. Additionally, there was a class-like structure which elevated the ordained, male hierarchy over the lower echelon sisters. Wholesome, holy, humble priests and nuns transcended this dysfunctional division. But human nature being what it is (fallen), this was not the norm or the rule. In recent years (since Vatican II) we have the tendency of progressive nuns to (understandable) resentment. And the all male clerical state has always been prone to the immaturity and self-centeredness of the bachelor that fails in reverence, tenderness and affection for the feminine. 

1. Dorothy Day and the Catholic Worker

Day (along with similar 20th century Catholic women: Catherine de Hueck Doherty, Madeleine Delbrel) was fierce, fearless, determined, holy and passionately in love with Christ, his Church and the poor and suffering. They were lay, not religious, and so differ from predecessors like  St. Mother Francis Xavier Cabrini, St. Mother Katherine Drexell, Rose Hawthorne, Mother Margaret Cusak and so many others. Their feminine ferocity, determination, selflessness, courage, confidence, liberty of spirit, and perseverance puts to shame contemporary feminism in it upper class comfort, indulgence, entitlement, sexual license, privilege, misandry, and embryo-phobia. 

Day was a free and intrepid spirit, a voracious reader, a gifted writer, a deep thinker, a holy woman and a huge influence upon American Catholic culture. She was femininity at its most intense and fierce. But, in accord with Catholic tradition, she was receptive of the masculine and the Petrine (hierarchical/sacramental): she received her partner Peter Maurin (notice first name!) as her intellectual mentor, even as she was clearly the leading force of the Catholic Worker. She was in all essential things deferential to the magisterial Church, even as she operated with liberty in the face of disapproval of her political radicalism. In a distinctive manner, she combined flawlessly orthodox Catholic piety (for example, in all things sexual) with far left politics. 

She reigned unchallenged as matriarch of the Catholic Worker, her child. She was no misandrist: she revered Maurin and the Catholic hierarchy and remained close to her lover/baby-father all her life. But her ferocious femininity, expressed in the Catholic Worker, was unbalanced by a comparable masculinity. We see this specifically in her pacifism and anarchism. Both these ideologies are lacking in masculine intuitions about the necessity of lethal force to restrain predators and the need for law, regulation and authority in human community. And so, the Catholic Worker, strong in maternity but weak in paternity, in pure form, and extended broadly, leads to chaos and vulnerability. 

She, along with her soul mates like Doherty and Delbrel, embody a flaming, inspirational femininity that is nevertheless receptive of, if not quite balanced by the masculine/petrine/paternal.

2. Chiara Lubich and the Focolari

A delightful documentary on Chiara,  available streaming on the EWTN channel, strikingly portrays the fierce-but-feminine heroine, in war torn Italy 1943, with her small group of girl friends, courageously serving the poor and suffering. She is intensely devout, receptive of guidance from spiritual directors and ecclesial authorities who are initially hostile and disrespectful. The fierce, fearless, radiant, holy femininity she and her friends demonstrate easily transcends the violence of the fascists as well as traditional Italian machismo. In a memorable scene, many are gathered in an underground shelter during bombing when a violent argument erupts between two men. Chiara stands observing; clearly incapable of physically intervening; when a half-asleep drunk starts quietly singing a sweet Italian melody that could have been a hymn or a child's tune. Chiara is sensitive to it; she listens; quietly joins in; gradually others, mostly women and children, also join in. Eventually a peace descends upon all, including the combatants.

The word "Focolari" derives from the Italian word for "hearth." This signals the nurturing elements of warmth, nurture, enclosure.

She is grilled mercilessly by the Vatican office (formerly the Inquisition) in a manner dismissive, contemptuous, and judgmental. But her clarity, certainty, and humility win the day: finally the suspicious Cardinals grand the goodness of the movement.

The Focolari movement has permission from the Vatican to be led, always, by a woman. In granting this unusual permission, John Paul acknowledged its "Marian" nature. I have had little personal contact with this group over the years. But their exclusive (feminine) focus upon unity and love did not appeal to my masculine psyche. However the striking documentary convinced me of the authenticity of this charism and mission.

Masculine Movements

By contrast, consider masculine, largely clerical rather than lay, movements. 

1. Franciscan Friars of the Renewal.  These are a favorite of mine as I live near NYC where they originated; have been in close contact with them over the years; and I have admired their founders, especially Fr. Benedict Groschel. I view them as the marines or navy seals of Catholicism: the most militant, combative, aggressive. What the Jesuits were over 400 years. While too much of the priesthood has become emasculated since the Council, this group is the opposite extreme. They live poorly; they serve the very poor; they evangelize clearly, energetically, certainly, boldly. They are Culture Warriors par excellence: intrepid and lucid in articulation of our faith and renunciation of error. Their devotion to Mary and Church as bride of Christ bring a feminine balance. But arguably, it is not adequate to offset a kind of machismo common in all-male groups whether police, sailors or friars.

2. Opus Dei and Legionnaires of Christ.  These are quite similar: Hispanic, clerical, masculine, traditional. Again, the Marian dimension is recognized in the mode of class Catholic piety, but that is 
hardly adequate to modulate male tendencies to a moralistic, rigid clericalism. 

Personally I have had minimum personal contact with Opus Dei but I identify it with knowledgeable, upper class, confident priests. I cannot recall any women associated with it.

I have a fair personal acquaintance with Regnum Christi, specifically the woman's division which for a time attempted to recruit my own teenage daughters. They were unfailingly elegant, articulate, devout, attractive young women. (In that sense, my daughters would have fit right in...in my opinion😀.) With time, however, two specific problems became obvious.

First, their engagements (meetings, retreats) were clearly intended to recruit into their organization. There was little sense of strengthening the vocation of one who was not moving in their direction. In that sense it reflected a "cult-like" (but certainly not a cult as they are entirely Catholic) impulse to define themselWves as the "elect" against a world, and much of the Church, that is in deep darkness.

Secondly, more pertinently in regard to our topic, the men and women were kept absolutely apart from each other. This went well beyond a prudent concern to protect chastity against weakness of the flesh. It reflected a toxic suspicion, a distrust, a paralyzing anxiety about men being with women. It of course made complete sense when we learned the full details of the sexual depravity of their founder. 

In that sense, they present a negative model of the inter-gender dynamic. However, I hasten to add: the light shines quite brightly, especially in the darkness. And we do marvel: while a good tree bears good fruit, it is not unknown that a bad tree bears good fruit and a good tree bad fruit. My daughter did her doctorate in psychology at the Institute for Psychological Science, founded by the Legionnaires, where she enjoyed wholesome, inspiring relations among male and female faculty and students.

3.  Charismatic Renewal

With this movement I have personal familiarity as my wife and I participated vigorously in the 1970s, when it was developing and expanding in the United States. In large part, under the leadership of Ralph Martin and Steve Clark, in Ann Arbor, it was an infusion of Pentecostal and Evangelical spirituality into Catholicism: prayer in tongues, deliverance from evil spirits, miraculous healings, prophesies and inspirations, strong spiritual authority and discipleship, and (importantly for our purposes) very strong distinction in gender roles. In all of this bold supernaturalism, of course, it was a powerful reaction against the naturalist, progressive forces dominant in the Church after the Council, including feminism, hatred of patriarchy and the deconstruction of gender.

The core of this view is the Pauline intuition of Christ's sacrifice of himself on the cross as the inner form the spousal love of the husband and the bridal Church's reception of this love as informing the free, deliberate, serene entrustment by the bride of herself to her groom. This distinction, John Paul especially emphasized,  was always in the context of Paul's prior and primary exhortation that the spouses defer to each other mutually, equally. At the time, I received this teaching as an encouraging call to emulate Christ in generous, strong-but-gentle sacrifice.

This view is, obviously, to the culturally progressive mind, at best incoherent and unintelligible, at worst a smokescreen for patriarchy as toxic male oppression and misogyny. The language used was not helpful: male "headship." This word clearly implies subordination, inequality, and diminishment of the feminine. 

This model was problematic for our own marriage. My wife despised the term "head" and the subordination entailed. I consciously embraced the ideal of emulating Christ in humility, generosity and sensitivity. But intentions do not translate directly to deed. We already had a power inequality in our marriage: I am three years older, firstborn of nine, confident and assertive in my views and preferences, and comfortable with authority and hierarchical structures (Church, schools, UPS where I worked). Without deliberation or intention, I tended to spontaneously overwhelm my wife who was by nature less certain, secure, confident, assertive and more generous. In a subtle manner, this teaching tended to aggravate this dynamic of unequal power. My wife preferred the language of St. John Paul II who called for "mutual submission" between the spouses. We are now married almost 54 years and continue to struggle with the mystery of our marriage: pride, selfishness, insecurity, control...compassion, sensitivity, trust, generosity, humility.

Moving into the 1980s, we ourselves detached from charismatic renewal as our prayer group ended, we took up normal Catholic parish/family life, and the movement diminished as a cultural force. However, a small number of charismatics joined together in intensive "covenant communities" including locally the People of Hope and the Community of God's Love in the Newark area. These followed the gender philosophy of the "Sword of the Spirit" that became increasingly extreme and countercultural. In the strongest forms, this was shamelessly countercultural, especially in restrictions on women: in higher education they were directed to education and nursing, appropriate sports included gymnastics and dance but not softball or basketball, skirts (no pants!) were to be below the knee, and so forth. In our own area, northern NJ, a major controversy erupted between the People of Hope and Archbishop Peter Gerity. This division continued for many years but has diminished as the community is now in very good standing with the archdiocese.

From a distance, I followed this drama with great interest, The rejection of the monotony of androgyny was a relief, but clearly an overreaction. We raised our own family(I like to think) so as to blend the contemporary with the classically Catholic,  avoiding the extremism of the covenant communities, in tune with conjugal mysticism and the following two movements which have influenced us.

Happy Marriage...Balanced, Integrated, Mutually Enchanted and Reverent...of Man and Woman

1. Communion and Liberation, out of Italy in the 1960s, is striking in the wholesome, free, relaxed, trusting, creative relationships between men and women. There is no trace of the suspicion and anxiety of Regnum Christi, nor of the stereotyping of the charismatic at its worst. We observe this every year at the jubilant New York Encounter which is a high energy event overflowing with attractive, intelligent, educated, devout but sophisticated young adults. More personally, we know it through our daughter who is a member of the Memores Domini, a community of women (and separately men) living, in community, the evangelical promises (poverty, chastity, obedience) while pursuing secular careers. From the founder, Monsignor Luigi Giussani, a renaissance man of our time, an extraordinary confidence, optimism, and trust in regard to culture, the Church, and specifically the serendipitous chemistry between the masculine and the feminine.

Their movement has not been free of the sexual scandal that seems to plague the entire Church. Arguably, their positivity needs correction by a prudent vigilance regarding (classically) the world, the flesh and the devil. Nevertheless, they are inspiring and encouraging in the joy, vigor, dignity, strength and generosity they radiate in the interaction of men and women.

The strongest evidence that the Sword of the Spirit and the covenant movement has gained some equilibrium is Amy Comey Barrett, so impressive in intellect, influence, character and luminous femininity...a product of and current participant in the People of Praise community in South Bend: "by their fruits you will know them."

2.  Neocatechumenal Way, out of Spain in the 1960s, is a contrast to Communion and Liberation, but similar in its wholesome balance in the male/female dynamic. If CL is confident, dialogic, and respectful in the encounter with the broader culture, this "way" is defensive, vigilant, militant. It is perhaps the strongest expression of the famed "Benedict Option" as a qualified "retreat" from society to create a powerful intentional Catholic community, even more intense than the charismatic covenant communities. But there is a wholesome, balanced mutuality of reverence in tenderness in the husband and wife dynamic. The catechist (the real leaders) are lay, prominently including married couples. While there is a strong sense of the paternal and maternal roles (especially since they have very large families), there is no diminishment of the feminine, no hint of toxic patriarchy. Rather, in the communities (several) that I have personally known, the strength of the women is quite striking.  For example, my own catechists were Frank and Jeanne Palumbo. Frank was a fireman who charged into the world trade center on 9/11 (straight into the arms of God) and left Jeanne with 11 children, including a newborn. Frank was a strong, impressive man; Jeanne was a quiet powerhouse...understated, intelligent, calm, reassuring. Their mutuality-in-strength was emulated by the catechist that succeeded them: David and Carmen. My observation was that the men did more of the talking; but the women were more intense and forceful when it mattered. This is neither a patriarchy, nor a matriarchy. Rather, the large families and expanding communities that they tend require comparable, but distinct strengths from both partners. It is now my delight to observe my son and his wife emulating this spiritual dignity.

Conclusion: Credit to (Some of) the Boomers

Every marriage, family, generation, society, community and relationship is a dense, creative, complex, eventful interaction of the masculine and the feminine. Perhaps none has been as chaotic and dramatic as my own generation that came of age in the 1960s. I have considerable shame as our generation largely ingested the toxicities of the Sexual Revolution and Cultural Progressivism. However, as I review the surprising, inspiring developments of my lifetime, I see that select groups of our generation have had immense influence, for the good, on the Church and world. Crucial movements that have influence our marriage and family came out of the 1960s: CL in Italy around 1968, Neocatechumenal Way out of Spain around 1962, and the Charismatic Renewal in Duquesne in 1967...all very close to Vatican II. These were all carried by elites of our generation: CL was really started by the college students influenced by Monsignor Giussani; the movement of Kiko and Carmen was brought to the USA by Giuseppe and Claudia Generelli who are about my age; and Charismatic Renewal was led by Steve Clark and Ralph Martin, young adults at the time. 

While not all of my children are deliberate disciples of these schools, I am delighted that they all enact the same basic Catholic values in their distinctive marriages and families. And it is my fervent hope that my grandchildren, as they approach and enter adulthood, will receive, cherish, protect, develop and share the rich inheritance we have been given.

 


 


Monday, October 14, 2024

The Dance of the Human Spirit Within the Heavenly Symphony of the Good, the True, and the Beautiful

 What follows is, of course, inspired by the heart-piercingly splendid theology of Fr. Hans Urs Von Balthasar.

Every human life is a single dance, but in response to a symphony informed by three interwoven mysteries: the Good, the True, the Beautiful.

The Drama of the Good-and-Evil; Person as Will, Freedom and Action; Spiritual Combat

Human existence is the engagement of our created freedom with that of others, with God and His kingdom, and against the Dark Kingdom. A binary choice: between the Good and Evil. It is constant, relentless spiritual combat. It is action: intelligent choice expressed in deed, concretely, in the flesh, over time. It is not melodrama or histrionics as in the sentimentality of soap operas; rather, it is engagement with, being grasped and formed, through choice, by powerful currents of the Good or Evil. The moral/spiritual realm is a simple binary: The Kingdom of God and the Kingdom of Darkness, of sin and death, of Satan and his minions. Every person is a battlefield between the two; and yet every person is also living in the state of grace or the state of sin. The interior state of the soul is a hidden mystery, known only to God. But it is not detached from the flesh: the good tree bears good fruit. The Good (along with the True and the Beautiful) is diffusive, expansive, generous, welcoming. But in its inversion and perversity, so is the powerful Realm of Darkness. Each person is an actor in the Drama of salvation, of history, and endowed with heart-intellect-will, with freedom, with a mysterious integrity of charism, mission, suffering, and destiny. This mission is largely hidden from us in this life; it involves all the concrete detail of a specific life; in includes "state of life" (married, consecrated, ordained, single) and the unending and surprising itinerary of encounters, events, loves, failings, accomplishments, conspiracies, and delights.

The Human Intellect: Yeaning for the True and the Real

We see already in the young child an irrepressible curiosity about What Is? What is real? and Why? What is the purpose? The cause? The intention? The destiny and goal?

Creation, Reality, the Real...is the work of an infinite, absolute, perfect Intellect...that of God. The human person is created in the divine image and likeness to understand, engage, delight in, be in intelligent and deliberate communion with Reality in its totality. The human intellect is active and inquisitive, but fundamentally receptive as the True (like the Good and the Beautiful) manifests itself. The personal intellect is the Bride; the Real and True is the Groom. The intellect does not construct, imaginatively, the real...in a Kantian or postmodern sense. Rather, the intellect receives the Real, always in wonder, delight, gratitude. 

The Beautiful: Delight, Gratitude and Adoration

The Real, which is to say the True and the Good, is at the same time always Beautiful: delighting the heart-soul-intellect-will, as radiant and harmonious out of a mysterious, hidden-but-manifest inner integrity (form). The Real is always encountered as Good and True but also Beautiful; that is, delightful. Within the Trinity, this trilogy of transcendentals is absolute, perfect, infinite, eternal. In creation it is always finite, temporal, partial, mortal, and (after The Fall) flawed by sin, corruption and death. But the created is intended for participation in the Uncreated, the finite for the Infinite, the temporal for the Eternal, the partial for the Completion, and even the sinful for the Mercy of God.

Evil, Untruth, and the Ugly...although powerful in the historic realm...are themselves Unreality: negations, deprivations, distortions...empty of final substance and reality. They are finally powerless and vulnerable before the genuinely Good, True and Beautiful.

And so, even in this world of corruption, change, fragility, pain and sin...we delight always in the Real... and we exult (patiently) in Hope. In the very deepest darkness, the infallible/efficacious chiaroscuro of Divine Providence guarantees that the light...of the True, the Good, the Beautiful...shines all the brighter!



Saturday, September 21, 2024

Maryknoll College Seminary, Glen Ellyn, Illinois, Class of 1969: What Happened?

September 1965 we arrived, about 100 of us, ambitioning to give our lives in service of God and the suffering around the world as celibate, Catholic, Maryknoll, missionary priests.  Because of the distinctive timing (1965-9), ours was to be an entirely unique itinerary, even as we were a lucid microcosm of the broader, especially American Church. Last week we enjoyed our 55 year anniversary reunion, or even "renewal," of our lifelong friendship and the values we share. We have gathered every five years over the decades. We are not aware of any other class, before or after, doing this. This is due to the unrepeatable coalescence of time, place and our congenial but disparate personalities.

From all over the country, we were a rich diversity of personalities, but quite homogeneous: 18 years old, white, male, working-middle class, mostly liberal politically, pious in a low key, self confident (notwithstanding standard adolescent insecurities) and surging with youthful altruism, idealism, curiosity, and adventure. We enjoyed a naive (to be short-lived) confidence in the messianic role of both the Catholic Church and the USA, not only in countervailing Soviet Communism, but also in lifting up the undeveloped world. We were iconic products of post-war, (1945-65) American Catholic Camelot. 

We had been screened by Maryknoll for emotional stability, capacity for college academics, Catholic piety, potential for leadership and wholesome family backgrounds. Basically however, we were a self-chosen group. What we surely shared more than anything else was a deep, powerful impulse of generosity to help those who suffer. We were the pampered, privileged boomer generation; but we were grateful for our blessings and eager to share with the less fortunate.

Time: 1965-9

1965 was the culmination, the terminus, the pinnacle of the post-war American Catholic Camelot. Vatican II was just ending. The Church was exploding: large families, tons of vocations, new parishes, schools, colleges, seminaries, convents and rectories. A surge of missionary activity, especially to Latin America. Maryknoll was ordaining close to 50 men a year. Cultural icons, even beyond Catholicism, were the Kennedy family, Fulton Sheen, Thomas Merton, Doctor Tom Dooley and others. Civil rights movement was fiercely championed by the Church along with all elite institutions. The previous two decades had been an unprecedented love affair between the USA and Catholicism. But the honeymoon was to end very shortly...and harshly.

The progressive narrative is that the Council marked the end of the Tridentine Church and the beginning of a new Vatican II Church. But it is better understood as the culmination, the final product of powerful trends that were building for the entire 20th century but especially since the war: ecumenism, liturgy, scripture studies, social justice, role of the laity, religious freedom and Church/state relationships, dialogue with modernity, and a return to the sources. The documents of the Council were all approved by overwhelming majorities, in the high 90%s. In our country, (as I recall), there was widespread euphoria and only marginal resistance because it expressed values we had already been living for at least two decades. Even as the Council was being implemented, however, by some historic (or demonic?) irony, the Cultural, Progressive Revolution was exploding across the culture, deconstructing the post-war Catholicism which produced us. We deeply inhaled the toxins from our now-open seminary.

The Place: Maryknoll College Seminary, Glen Ellyn, Illinois, 1965-69

When we entered the college seminary in 1965, it was intact, vigorous, coherent. Several hundred of us lived a quasi-monastic, wholesome rule of life centered around study, prayer, liturgy, strong friendships, and modest amounts of manual labor and athletic recreation. I fondly recall, for example, the custom of 2 or 3 seminarians and priests, walking around our large building in the recreation time between dinner and night prayers (6:30-7:15) and praying together the rosary. It was a virile, wholesome, serene and challenging life. It was to fall apart, with much of the American Church, in the next four years. It was a different entity when we graduated in 1969. Some of us had lost our Catholic faith, others had given up daily prayer, some had girl friends, others worked in a local bar, many had embraced the New Left or the new religion of psychology. By 1971 it was closed. 

Our faculty and formators were mostly middle aged Maryknollers, the Silent Generation,  men who had chosen the missionary life but were sent, because of their academic intelligence, to graduate schools to educate us younger men. Not first class scholars, they were competent in their fields; intelligent; sound emotionally; of good character; and generally men of faith, in accord with the time that formed them. Perhaps as many as half left the priesthood in the following years. 

One would imagine that good, middle aged men without children of their own would take a paternal interest in the young adults entrusted to them. Sadly, this did not happen. A "class structure" existed that erected an invisible wall between priests and seminarians. They taught us in the classroom and lived with us as prefects in our units, but on the whole there was little intimacy between us. It was like a residential prep school: on our part there was respect and affection, but from a distance. There were exceptions: some classmates fondly recall confessors and spiritual directors; an infirm priest elicited intense affection from those assigned to care for him; I myself was mentored by a lay, librarian autodidact. 

Our faculty was entirely embracive of the Vatican Council, but was not consciously critical of the Cultural Revolution exploding at that very moment. Rather, since many left the priesthood in the following years, it is clear many were influenced by it, uncritically. I don't recall any priest clearly identifying and renouncing it. I recall for example, a respected theologian delivering a significant lecture, towards the end of our time there, about the rapidity of culture change and that society increasingly needs to look to the young, rather than the old (experienced, learned, grounded in tradition) for wisdom. That thesis is surely at the heart of the Progressive Revolt: disparagement of tradition, authority, and the past. Arguably the biggest influence on our class was noted priest-psychologist Eugene Kennedy (my personal nemesis!) who left the priesthood and was widely received as a guru of Catholic progressivism.

With our faculty largely disengaged from ourselves and social developments, we as a class were left (especially in the last two tumultuous years of 1968-9) to form each other, in the currents sweeping around us. My personal recall of those years was a low-grade, constant, ecstatic frenzy of reading, thinking, discussing, arguing. To be sure, not all of our class were so vulnerable to this intellectual virus; perhaps half or more continued tranquilly, immune to this contagion. Specifically, many of us returned as seniors after the summer of 1968 (arguably the explosion point of the Revolution) from experiences that had "blown our minds" (a favored phrase at the time): a group stayed in a black inner city parish, I myself studied Spanish at the Ivan Illich radical think tank in Cuernavaca, Mexico, and such. All institutions, but especially those of the Church, were critically scrutinized and questioned. Sacred authority, as in our Catholic tradition, was forgotten; an Alinsky-like, soft Marxist paradigm of authority as power, of the oppressor over the oppressed, became evident everywhere, including the Catholic hierarchy. Our senior year became an intense workshop in political/cultural radicalism.

Weakness of the Catholic Camelot

Looking back, it is evident that the confident, expansive, fecund Catholicism of our childhood had underlying weaknesses, superficial roots. How else could it have collapsed so catastrophically within a few years in the 60-70s?

The primary problem was lack of an evangelical/mystical foundation: the failure to hear and engage the Gospel event-person of Jesus Christ, God-and-man, our personal/communal Lord and Savior. The entire Catholic elaboration (morals, dogmas, liturgy) springs from the personal encounter with the crucified-risen-ascended-Spirit-sending Jesus Christ. Without that spiritual basis, Catholicism is an incoherence, a house of cards. And so, our cohort (along with the entire Church) had been moralized, sacramentalized, and dogmatized but NOT evangelized. We had not come to know deeply, personally, intimately the Divine Person of Jesus in relationship with the Father and the Spirit. And so, in large part, this Camelot Catholicism collapsed, almost immediately, like a house of cards, under the demonic assault of the Cultural Revolution and sexual/political progressivism.

Closely related to this spiritual problem was an intellectual one: our American Church was not deeply, clearly rooted in a philosophical, dogmatic (in the best sense) understanding of our faith. Intellectually, we were largely defenseless against the assault that came. Our immigrant, American character was largely pragmatic and activist but weak in contemplation and metaphysical reflection. This is true of our entire society; and so of our Church; and specifically of the the Maryknoll missioner bringing American-know-how (credit unions, agriculture, education, etc.) to the deprived around the globe.  

We, Wannabe Catholic Evangelizers, are Evangelized

The irony: we were being formed to spread our faith; in the process we (largely) lost our faith and accepted a new one. Our faith formation had been childish and shallow, without deep roots or a solid foundation. Our faculty was distant from us and largely clueless about the tsunami of change around us; they were not forming us in the Catholic faith. We were forming ourselves, in the currents of anti-Catholic progressivism. 

Those years were intellectually stimulating; but spiritually they were a dessert. I cannot recall any inspiring homily or lecture; nor going to confession; nor a life-changing retreat or conference. Spiritual direction (as I recall) was a priest doing an exercise in Rogerian listening, when I had nothing really to say! There was a stability, but a monotony to our liturgical life. Fervor for the Gospel...passionate love for Jesus Christ...the fire of the Holy Spirit...were not evident.

The vacuum was filled by the twin fascinations of progressivism:  the political and the therapeutic.

What is Cultural Progressivism?

A perfect storm of diabolic currents...all anti-Catholic...that had been simmering for decades but exploded volcanically around 1968:

- A secularism, very materialistic, that ignored the supernatural and relocated the spiritual in the political and the therapeutic. Thus, an incomprehension of: the male-celibate priesthood, chastity, virginity, the demonic, divine wrath, spiritual warfare, the miraculous, cloistered monastic life, relics, final judgement, sacramental efficacy, papal infallibility, the inherent sanctity of hierarchy/dogma/patriarchy...and the entire architecture of Catholicism...all radiating from the Splendor of Christ.  It is tyranny of the activist/pragmatic/efficient over the contemplative/ mystical/sacred.

- The contraceptive sterilization of sexuality and and its displacement from enclosure in the spousal as unitive, fecund, faithful, chaste, sacrificial.

- Tolerance of abortion as back-up contraception and the desecration of human life that is incompetent.

- A Darwinian trust in the inevitable triumph of science/reason over the ignorance and superstition of the religious past. Thus, a disparagement of tradition, revelation, authority.

- Prominence of the Marxist model of oppressor/oppressed throughout history and society: male/female, black/white, capitalist/worker, straight/gay, colonizer/colonized, etc. With this an allegiance to political leftism in a messianic key and exaggeration of policy and government as efficacious and salvific. 

- Triumph of the therapeutic over the spiritual disciplines of prayer, confession of sin, penance, and communal liturgy. Personal, private health and thriving replaced older ideals of the heroic and the holy.

- The absolute sovereignty of the individual, isolated, "choosing" Self, dislocated from history, family, tradition, the Mystical Body and the Trinity. 

The seductive appeal of progressivism for elite Catholicism, including our cohort, is that it is itself a Christian heresy. It is not a bold, lucid rejection of our faith like Nazi neo-paganism. Like all heresies, it inflates key elements of our faith, detaching them from the Catholic gestalt and turning them against other truths. So progressivism is a humanism, accentuating the dignity of the person; it champions the social/political underdog; it frees sexuality from shame/guilt to declare its inherent goodness; it accentuates the power of the intellect and science and especially all the wisdom unveiled by psychology and the social sciences. The Catholic Progressive self-identifies, not as an "ex" or lapsed Catholic, but as one who is more enlightened, contemporary, scientific, and compassionate.

Maryknoll

Maryknoll was particularly vulnerable to the corrosive toxins of post 1965 Progressivism, but first some history. We can contrast the original Maryknoll (1911-45) with the post-war society (1945-65). The founders (Fathers Price and Walsh, Bishops Ford and Walsh) shared a fierce Tridentine spirituality: Marian, sacramental, hierarchical and passionate to save souls from the world, flesh and the devil by baptism into the one true Church. By contrast, the Maryknoll that attracted our class in the early 1960s, at the time of the Council and before the Cultural Revolution, was a happy marriage of American cultural confidence and Catholic generosity. 

That second paradigm collapsed catastrophically, immediately after 1965, for several reasons:

1. Individualism. The Maryknoll ideal, much like that of the Jesuits, was of the solitary, heroic individual, courageously pursuing his mission in a foreign land. At that time, there was a famous TV cigarette commercial of the "Marlboro Man": strong, handsome male on a horse, in the American West, calmly smoking his Marlboro. The Maryknoller was the Marlboro Man! Catholicism in its most potent expressions is always fiercely communal: the monks and mendicants, the lay renewal movements (charismatic, Neocatechumenal, Communion and Liberation) and the new, conservative religious orders attracting our youth. Such thick communities...whether evangelical/charismatic or traditional...are resistant to hegemonic liberal individualism. Not so the Jesuits and the Maryknollers. 

2. Missiology. Vatican II stressed the positive, even salvific elements of other religions; it downplayed the negative, violent, even demonic aspects. It would have benefited, for example, from a dose of Rene Girard's anthropology of mimetic, sacred violence. This imbalance opened the Church to an anthropological relativism and universalism: all paths lead to God; avoid triumphalism at all costs; God's mercy brings pretty much everyone to heaven anyway. Our theology professor Fr. Fraizer explained that the paradigm of Church as sacrament had been replaced by sign. A sacrament we know is an efficacious sign of God's grace. The new model, drained of efficacy, sees God's grace already operative so the Church is there to illuminate that presence. The mission task is not to convert to Christ and his Church, but to somehow clarify and highlight grace already at work. This is a vague abstraction at best. It ignores sin, the demonic, the desperate need for conversion, the distinctive and incomparable Splendor of Jesus Christ. Is it likely a young person would give up marriage, children, career and comfort to be such a "sign?"

3. Colonialism.  The confident, virile, American, Catholic image of the missioner that attracted us to Maryknoll in 1965 was brutally attacked and deconstructed by the  anti-colonialism of the late 1960s left. Ivan Illich was the most fierce critic of the missionary effort in Latin America as cultural imperialism: assuming superiority, missioners imposed the Irish-American parish structure (Church, rectory, school, convent) as they propagated high technology and disparaged (if unintentionally) the rich, simple religiosity and traditions of native peoples. 

4. Leftwing Radicalism.  Working often with the very poor, Maryknollers saw, of course, the systemic social/political causes of marginalization and so many were drawn to activism, liberation theology, and soft Marxist ideologies to alleviate the suffering. Progressive policy here takes on a highly moralistic, even religious dimension.

5. Pragmatism. As a group, Maryknollers are men of action, doers of good deeds, "Marthas" rather han "Marys." Intelligent, few are metaphysicians; compassionate, few are deeply mystical; quiet, modest witnesses by their lives, they tend to be  mute in regard to evangelical proclamation. And so as a group they lacked the spiritual and intellectual resources to clearly see and combat the anti-Catholic ferocity of progressivism.

Maryknoll post-1965 is a loose association of generous, adventuresome, idiosyncratic, Catholic bachelors. They are a delightful, fascinating group: intelligent, energetic, enthusiastic, positive, gracious, confident. Mostly, they are men of compassion, of action and agency. Their piety is quiet, personal, humble. Their politics mostly leans left; their theology is not entirely orthodox. But they prefer action to argument and are not overly ideological. They are faithful to the Church and devoted to the Eucharist and probably (quietly) to our Blessed Mother. A small number lean to the conservative movements (pro-life, charismatic, Marian, etc.) but more favor liberation theology and liberal politics. They tend to be mavericks, eccentrics, risk takers, humorous, carefree, creative, full of life.

What of the future? For decades now there have been almost no vocations from the States. They are now recruiting from other countries. I myself am skeptical about this direction since their is no shared, communal spirituality welcoming them. 

Nevertheless, I cannot adequately express my admiration, delight and gratitude for the "silent generation" of Maryknollers who are now steadily passing to their reward.

Where are We Today: Glen Ellyn Class of 1969?

Four of us are today Maryknoller priests. They reflect the description above: delightful, entirely different personalities...gifted, generous, intelligent, energetic men of deep (if quiet) faith and exceptional moral character. Jim spent his adult life in Korea and communist China and is now working on the canonization causes of founders Fr. Price and Bishop James Anthony Walsh. John worked for decades in Africa, was leader of Maryknoll, and now teaches at Scranton University, in the local jail, and works at the United Nations as representative of Maryknoll. Scott became a doctor/surgeon, worked in care for AIDs patients in Africa and continues to serve in parish work in the USA. Larry gained a doctorate in spirituality, served Chinese religious studying in the USA and continues to do spiritual direction, retreat work and talks. At 77 they all have their boots on and continue to prod their distinctive paths. We esteem and love each of them.

A special, very special case: unchallenged leader of our class, John Harper, served in Maryknoll leadership for years before leaving to have a family and do amazing work with the homeless, addicted, and mentally ill...all rooted in a deep, fertile 12-step spirituality. An exceptional, fascinating, gifted, humble man! Typical of Maryknoll, a man of action...but at the same time, a quiet mystic.

Two of our classmates are permanent deacons. We all seem to enjoy happy marriages and family life. Perhaps half of us practice our Catholic faith (understood simply as participation in mass on Sunday.) Almost all lean left in theology and politics. Most have found a synthesis of our Catholic and progressive propensities. With the exception of a few of us, there is little connection with evangelical Christianity, the Latin Mass community, the theological legacy of John Paul and Benedict, or Culture War from the pro-life conservative side.

There is, then, a political/theological divide that coexists with a deep, intense mutuality in respect and affection. This divide is perhaps most strongly felt by the few of us who have moved strongly in the opposing conservative/progressive directions.  Ironically, the Harris/Trump debate happened on the Tuesday evening of our reunion. We exchanged views, calmly and respectfully. 

I cannot deny an underlying sadness: we were so close in those years; and now have gone in different, often contradictory directions. The liberal/Catholic synthesis of our childhood and youth did not endure: many of us have gone progressive, a few of us strong Catholic. My own grief is not for my friends; they benefit from their roots in wholesome, if imperfect, midcentury American Catholicism. It is for their children and grandchildren, detached from the sacramental economy, the Mystical Body of Church, and vulnerable in a society gone lonely, rootless, techno-manic, materialistic, and Godless. The impulse to share our faith that brought us together in 1965 burns more intensely today in me; especially in regard to our young. 

As a group, however, we resemble Maryknoll itself. We deeply share Catholic roots and memories; and above all the impetus to do good and serve the suffering. We are different personalities; and have developed a variety of theologies, spiritualities and politics. We enjoyed (in my view), almost 60 years ago, in that tumultuous era, a Catholic Camelot of our own. We share an esteem, delight and affection for each other. In distinct ways, we continue to ride together the currents of Joy, gratitude and generosity that brought us together 59 years ago.

 

 




 

Wednesday, September 4, 2024

A Catholic View of the Democrat/Republican Divide Post-1970

 Age of Trump  Sagely, my oldest granddaughter Brigid observed a few years ago that the only political world she had known is that dominated by Trump. She realized this is not a blessing. He has been at once a symptom of, an aggravation of, and a reaction against the pathologies of our time. In this essay we will ignore this person to consider the political terrain independent of him.

Protestant Background.  The USA has always been, and remains in many ways, a Protestant Christian Nation. The Protestant Reformation (along with the Enlightenment, Freemasonry, etc.) informs the entire social network of our nation in its: idolatry of the Individual in solitary intimacy with Christ and rejection of ecclesial authority, sacramentality of marriage and orders, infallibility of the apostolic hierarchy, confession of sins, the religious life, devotion to Mary and the saints, This legacy and its long, complex historical trajectory has isolated the autonomous, rootless, lonely Self and inexorably destroyed bonds of filial loyalty, fidelity, obedience, authority, family and community at every level. The core social value becomes liberty as isolated individualism, freedom of choice and release from any bond or connection prior to choice. We see this in the economic liberalism of the Right and the sexual freedom of the Left. We see this trend intensified with increasing dependence on the mega-state and global corporations as intermediate, local institutions diminish and disappear. The war of "all against all" that results can only be mitigated by a controlling state; so that the individualism is countervailed by collectivism. The Catholic vision of the person intrinsically, interiorly connected (prior to choice) to family, God, community and the moral order is replaced by the absolute centrality and sovereignty of the Autonomous, Lonely Self,

Prehistory: 1945-65  The American into which I was born and raised was amazingly harmonious and uniform: economic prosperity, a pervasive Protestant/Catholic religious revival, relief at victory in war and the end of the Depression, unity in the Cold War and national confidence that verged on arrogance. There was no real Culture War; no dispute about abortion, gender, or sex. The contest between the two parties was mostly between capital and labor about how to share the expanding pie of economic affluence, This competition was not  a war, but more like a congenial picnic volleyball game. This exuberant period culminated with the triumph of the Civil Rights Movements which elicited the support of all major cultural institutions, excepting racism local to the South.

Cultural Revolution Post 1965  As we boomers entered adulthood, the American Camelot of our childhood/youth was destroyed by the eruption of the multifaceted Revolution: the pill, anti-establishment animus (especially the Vietnam War), rejection of tradition and authority, sterilization and liberation of sex, deconstruction of gender, scientific arrogance, rampant consumerism, the demise of religion, corruption of the family, and triumph of the therapeutic. Politically, the Democratic Party became the vehicle for this revolution; while moral conservatives found shelter with the Republicans. It has been observed that if this revolution were prophesized in 1960, most would assume that the party of change would be the affluent, indulged, selfish, individualistic, powerful Republicans. History is indeed surprising! 

Let us consider six major, and then some minor divides between the parties in our age.

1. Abortion is unquestionably the most defining, substantial difference. This is a binary opposition of absolutes: the reproductive right of the woman and the life of the embryo. There really is no coherent compromise here: the contradiction is unconditional. The rights mutually annihilate each other. Perhaps 60 % or more Americans favor some pragmatic compromise: exceptions, a moderate but random period of time, etc. This is what is happening of course and will prevail in most states. But morally, conceptually this makes no sense: why may a woman kill the fetus at one day less than (say) three months but not one day after? In both cases, the abortion is either a killing of a human or a morally acceptable option: the nature of the act cannot change on that particular calendar date. We see now in the hysteria and passion of the progressive reaction to Dobbs that for them reproductive is an absolute and sacred right, a matter of "life or death."

2. Sterilization of sexuality  is the deeper divide and the actual root cause of the addiction to abortion. The development of contraception was the most revolutionary technological event in human history: it redefined sexuality, gender, family, the nature of the person and the value of (incompetent, defenseless) human life. The integrity, harmony and profundity of God's design for sex, gender, marriage, family, fruitfulness, chastity, and fidelity is replaced by engineered sterility, contraception/cohabitation, pornography/masturbation, abortion-as-backup-contraception, homosexuality and transgenderism. The Democratic Party became "transubstantiated" immediately, in the early 1970s, as it became...interiorly, formally, structurally, substantially, systemically...the party of sexual decadence. This is the "Invasion of the Body Snatchers":  looks like the same party, but it has a different heart and soul. Pro-lifers (Casey, Shriver, Flynn) were purged while the  Kennedys-Cuomos-Bidens-Pelosis fervently embraced the new Progressive Religion and betrayed their Catholic legacy. About 50% of Catholics remain indifferent, in denial, or addicted to antiquated tribal loyalties. The Republican Party, a coalition of often contradictory forces (libertarian, neo-liberal economics, the moneyed class) welcomed cultural conservatives.

3. Religious Faith vs. Secularism.  To be sure, many Democrats have faith and many Republicans lack it. But on the institutional, systemic level, the DNC became the vehicle of Progressivism as hostile to religious faith, tradition, and authority. Religion is privatized and deferential to the the alleged infallibility of science, sexual liberation, the inexorable "arc of history," and identity politics. 

 4. Government: Big or Small?  Progressives look trustingly to the expansive, centralized State to countervail the rich/powerful, to lift up the underprivileged, and to ensure the common good. In this narrative, the villain is the rich, powerful, arrogant, selfish Republican and his corporate wealth. By contrast, the Republican is suspicious of big government as tyrannical, inefficient, repressive of entrepreneurial energy and eventually of freedoms of religion, speech and others. The one side wants to expand government with messianic hopes; the other seeks to shrink it with suspicions of the diabolical.

5. Class Divide. In the age of Trump, we see the culmination of a gradual political inversion: the Democratic Party, formerly defender of the underdog against the wealthy, has become the province of the affluent, educated, sexually liberated elites. Trump channels the rage of the underclass, of poor and broken families, of the less-schooled, of the traditionally religious. With the emergence of J.D. Vance and his partners we see the promise of a Catholic friendly populism that weds the economics of the postwar labor movement and the cultural conservatism after 1970.

6. Masculine and Feminine.  Men, especially those of the underclass, are strongly drawn to the masculine image of Trump and his party: angry, aggressive, decisive, indignant at being victims, macho in style and image.  Women more often favor the party of reproductive rights, defensive in a feminism of private, individual rights untethered by bonds of family, marriage, maternity.

The above are the more profound, defining differences. What follows are important but less essential.

7. Global Warming.  

Why is this reality, which is of great concern to our youth, so important to the Left but not the Right? 

First, the former is more secular, less aware of the supernatural, and therefore more urgent about earthly affairs as there is no eternity in the future. Progressive spirituality tends to an immanentism that finds the true-good-beautiful in the natural realm without reference to the Transcendent. There is a feminist sense of Mother Earth void of a Creator Father. 

Second, the diminishment of paternal religion and wholesome virility leaves a fragile feminism, vulnerable to hysteria and desperate for a a controlling, mother state. On the other side, a confident, aggressive machismo on the Right tends to instrumentalize and disenchant Creation.

 Thirdly, the Left trusts the expansive State and looks to it for protection. By contrast, the Right distrusts the State and leans into its own libertarian individualism and exaltation of the competent agency of the isolated Self.

8. Gun Control.  This issue pits a rural, individualistic traditionalism against an urban collectivism that trusts the State (including the police) for protection from violence. It is in part the big/small government debate; but also a question of lifestyle enjoyments.

9. Law and Order.  Since perhaps the 1968 riots in Chicago, the Left has advocated a freedom from authority and law and a resentment of the masculine posture of tradition, police and the rule of law. The hippy movement is long gone, but we now have open borders and "defund the police." On this issue the Right favors vigorous government, in a role of protection and authority, while the Left is suspicious of the masculine imagery. The male/female binary is prominent here. The Right sees the state in the masculine role of protection as in the police and military; the Left wants to diminish the need for force and develop a nurturing, maternal state.

10. International Relations.  In the post-War era, there was largely bi-partisan consensus regarding the Soviet Union: the policy positions of Nixon and Kennedy were very close. More recently, Progressives favor a soft internationalism: confidence in a global order of free trade and democracy, reliance on alliances (NATO, UN), credulity in negotiating with opponents. So, we have seen that Obama/Biden are eager to appease Iran, compromise with China, and call for a cease fire in Gaza. At the core is a mild pacifism that trusts that force can be avoided by the power of reason and good will. This is a striking naivite and optimism and rejection of Realpolitik. Our assistance to Ukraine has been forceful and multilateral but arguably too little too late to ensure that they prevail.  

On the Right we find two contradictory trends: the predominant one is a vigorous internationalism (neoconservative?) that insists that only a muscular Americanism can deter evil actors. The secondary trend is isolationism, a retreat from our role as global power to attend to our own concerns. (Vance).  Strangely, Trump represents both these contraries: he makes America first and disparages adventurism overseas even as he instinctively projects power and force. There is no coherence here. But it cannot be denied that he presided over a world at peace: pure luck?

Catholic Values.  In light of our faith, both parties have pros and cons; but there is no moral equivalence. Since 1970, the DNC is deeply and viciously anti-Catholic in its essential structure or form: abortion, sterilized sexuality, secularism and privatization of religion. The big government it advocates would, obviously, advance these values and repress Catholic practice. It is the religion of a cosmopolitan, secular elite that despises populist religious practices and beliefs. It is a decadent feminism, individualistic, resentful of the paternal and the maternal, and all the natural/spiritual bonds that infuse chaste, Marian Catholicism.

Can a Catholic Vote Democratic?  Possible, but unlikely.

It is like a Jew voting for the Nazi party. We might imagine a mayoral race in Germany in 1932 between two Nazis: one a competent, otherwise decent individual; the other a vicious racist. In that case a Jew would choose the lessor evil of the two.  On issues like climate, guns, taxes, immigration, health care and others Catholics of good will and intelligence may well differ in prudential judgment. 

There is about the Democratic Party in 2024 a striking simplicity: absolute demand for abortion on demand, desecration of sex and gender, aversion to the paternal and maternal, privatization of religion, inflation of the Marxist oppressor paradigm for identity politics, science as religion, cosmopolitanism, and a foreign policy of appeasement that mimics Chamberlain at Munich. 

By contrast, the Republican Party today is a mixed bag: crude Trumpian populism, traditional neo-liberalism, libertarianism, moral traditionalism, wall street and main street, isolationism and neoconservatism. There is much here for the Catholic to fight for and against.

 

Saturday, August 24, 2024

Question: Can a "Catholic" Progressive Convert/Revert to the Catholic Faith, Pure and Simple

 Answer: No! Not really! It is extremely rare, virtually impossible. A decadent pagan, a despairing nihilist, or a violent Marxist is more likely to convert than a true "Catholic" Progressive. Think of the legacy American Progressive Catholic families: Kennedy, Cuomo, Kerry, Biden, Peolosi! Do we hear of family members making a good confession and embarking on a life of chastity, or monastic solitude, or service directly with the poor? Hardly! Of course, we know that all things are possible to God; so we pray for them!

Let's contrast a Progressive and a Catholic and then a Catholic Progressive and a Progressive Catholic!

The Progressive looks for guidance, not to the ancient past, but to recent and especially anticipated future developments in science and technology. The past, as ignorant and deprived, is to be overcome by PROGRESS, which is eventually infallible. Contemporary, post 1968 progressivism, is the merging of five streams: evolutionary Darwinism which posits an inexorable "arc of history" fueled by science, reason, and technology; post-Freudian sexual liberation that locates human flourishing in the release of sterilized sex from marriage-family-children-the moral order, and God's creative and providential purposes; the ever present Marxist dialectic of oppression and liberation; more recently a pantheist infatuation with Mother Nature detached from a Creator-Father;  and above all the Nietzchean sovereignty of the isolated Self. These five views, if articulated clearly, become mutually contradictory, but philosophical depth and lucidity are foreign to feeling-based progressivism.

A Catholic looks for guidance to the person-event of Jesus Christ who revealed the Trinity in Israel two millennia ago and remains in living intimacy with the Catholic Church in prayer, teaching, and life. This is an organic, living, interpersonal, dynamic, and dramatic reality with a distinctive, eventful history. But throughout time there abides a stable, permanent reality that expresses itself creatively and surprisingly. 

A Catholic Progressive is a progressive with Catholic flavoring. Interiorly, in heart-soul-form-substance, the defining gestalt is that of progress. Any Catholic baggage that does not go with the flow of sexual/political liberation and "science" is displaced: contraception, heteronormativity, trans-phobia, etc. Such a "cafeteria" or "Catholic lite" progressive retains the elements of Catholicism that are compatible with the underlying paradigm: conspicuous marriage in a beautiful Church, burial, support of liberal social justice initiatives, and such.

A Progressive Catholic by contrast is interiorly Catholic: specifically, in a filial posture of trust, gratitude and obedience to the hierarchical Church. The defining center of ones life remains Christ present in his Church. Such a Catholic might very well be progressive on any number of current controversies in culture and politics: the environment, ecumenism, governmental action for the poor, liturgical reform, doctrinal development, gun control, taxes, immigration, foreign policy and health care. Such would not violate core Catholic values, especially involving the protection of powerless human life, sexuality-gender-family, and the moral limits of science. Clear denial of those principles, as in advocacy for legal abortion or "choice" is a step out of the Catholic into the Progressive religion. Underlying it is a disparaging judgment against the Church.

To understand the progressive resistance to Catholicism let us compare it with Islam. Both are Christian heresies which take elements of Divine Revelation and reject others. Mohammed, in Arabia of  600 AD, was familiar with Judaism and Christianity, especially the Arian form which denied the divinity of Christ. Spiritual genius that he was, he concocted a brilliant synthesis of elements from local paganism, Christianity and Judaism. Particularly, he incorporated monotheism and the moral code of the ten commandments. This is part of the inner core of the religion. It derives from Divine Revelation and is therefore good and true. Now the bad news: he rejected monogamy in favor of a misogynistic polygamy. He strongly employed the use of violence and force to spread his new religion. Implicitly this included an anti-intellectualism and a fundamentalist fideism. He denied the divinity, the crucifixion and the salvation by Christ and also the Trinity. His acceptance of monotheism was iconoclastic and anti-Christian as it disparaged as polytheism the doctrine of the Trinity. We see very few converts from Islam into Christianity. There are many reasons for this: in some countries converts are executed; everywhere converts are rejected by the community. But interiorly or spiritually there is an even stronger resistance: the religion has a powerful, deep, true core to the extent that it honor the Creator God and the moral code of the 10 commandments. From this high ground, it despises Christianity as polytheistic and idolatrous. 

A similar dynamic is at work in Catholic Progressivism. It does not self-define as a rejection of the Church, but as an enlightened, higher expression of it. It condemns the actual, institutional Church as repressive sexually, as misogynistic, patriarchal, reactionary. And so it is inherently immunized against fundamental Catholic truths: binary gender as an image of God, the fertile intentionality of sexuality, moral order, inherent evils, apostolic authority, ecclesial infallibility, and sacramental efficacy.

St. Charles de Focauld labored heroically in the Sahara for decades and was widely revered as a holy man, but he did not have a single convert. Muslim immunity against the Christian Gospel is deep. And so it is with the Catholic Progressive. Both faiths retain aspects of Revelation; both pervert them into an alternative religion, superior to actual Catholicism. And so like Focauld, we live peacefully, patiently in the dessert of Progressivism, commending our neighbors to God's love, extending always reverence and compassion, leaning ever more deeply into our Lord living in the Church.